As a chastity bottom, I wanted to lay out how chastity makes me feel and what I require to enjoy the experience. Needless to say, I’ve had negative chastity experiences, but those have helped me refine what I ask for and what I require.
- Acknowledgment of the fact that I am in the device
- Now, this doesn’t have to be all the time, but perhaps 2-3 times per day. However, I need the occasional reminder that I am on your mind (because I am yours). If it is just put on, and then later taken off without this, I start to get depressed
- Teasing
- Similar to #1, I need a little bit of teasing throughout each day. “Aw, no masturbating for you!” or similar. Basically, make it fun. When I am in the person’s presence, the occasional touch of the area, or the verbal reminder of the fact that I am in the belt really goes a long way.
- An end goal
- This one varies based on the person. There used to be a time where I was locked up before I went to work and unlocked when I got home. Without numbers 1 and 2 thrown in during the day, my thought processes got dark. For example, it wasn’t like I was going to masturbate (probably) at work or have sex at work. Also, my partner wasn’t around when I got home (or was asleep), so it would simply be removed and that was that. Not really much fun overall
- A time frame
- Now, this doesn’t have to be an exact to the minute time for being in chastity, but a vague idea that it will come off at some point. That isn’t to say the time can’t be reduced or extended, but it helps to be reminded of such and be given tasks that reduce the timer or be told what will cause it to increase.
- Appreciation
- If I am just wearing the belt, it really isn’t any fun. When it comes off, while of course release is appreciated, appreciation is the minimum I’d like. “You were such a good boy” or similar really goes a long way.
- If I am just wearing the belt, it really isn’t any fun. When it comes off, while of course release is appreciated, appreciation is the minimum I’d like. “You were such a good boy” or similar really goes a long way.